Wednesday, 19 August 2009

  • Help me! My best friend is an idiot with guys!

    I have a major problem. My best friend is quite the idiot with guys. To get you to understand what I mean.. here are some examples:

    Her ex-boyfriend made her have unprotected sex with him. His excuse? They don't make condoms big enough for him. Somehow, I find that hard to believe. However, she believed him..

    If that wasn't bad enough.. whenever she THOUGHT that she might be pregnant, she told three people. Him, her cousin, and myself. Two days later, the whole school was asking me if she was pregnant. Who told everyone? The boyfriend. However, instead of opening her eyes and dumping the butthole, she blamed her cousin for spreading that she was pregnant. Nice, ehh?
    One time, a friend was sitting with us at our table. "Us" means myself, my best friend and our boyfriends. My best friend's boyfriend was sitting there beside her, not talking and slobbering all over the lunch table while he was eating. Our friend simply says, jokingly, "Hey ____, you wanna join in the conversation?" He looks up at her and screams, "I DON'T HAVE TO F**KING TALK IF I DON'T WANT TO F**KING TALK!" Nobody knew what to say after that.
    Let's not forget the biggest example of them all.. he stood her up on her own birthday. That night, she begged him to take her back, because he claimed that she stood HIM up. What a great catch!

    After all of this drama.. he ended the relationship because, supposedly, his parents hated her. Turns out, he had cheated on her and wanted to be in a relationship with this girl. 

    Now here we are, a few months later, and this absolutely HORRIFIC guy is talking to her, telling her that she's absolutely beautiful. And, low and behold, she believes him. Now this guy? He will tell any girl anything that they want to hear just so he can get a piece. And he has cheated on every single girlfriend that he's ever had. She knows this; but, somehow, she is blinded. I definitely would NOT like another repeat of what happened to her before with the other guy. 

    So what I'm asking is.. How can I get her to understand how awful this guy is without making her hate me in the process?    

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